Christian Marriage Advice-Should You Keep Low Expectations?

September 13, 2009 by Kathy Davisson  
Filed under Divorce

A common complaint from many of the couples we work with is that their married life is so radically different from when they were dating. Boyfriends who used to bring bouquets and open car doors have become husbands who no longer bother, and girlfriends who used to listen have become wives who nag. What you get is a relationship in danger of failing and a lot of unhappy and unfulfilled spouses.

If this sounds like your marriage, I urge you to consider getting Christian marriage help. We have even put together a free DVD to help you on your way! My husband Joel and I have been able to help over 10,000 couples overcome the problems plaguing their marriages. It would be our pleasure to help you too.

We tend to accept this sea change in our relationships as a natural progression; we’re told that’s just the way things are. Conventional Christian marriage advice tells us that we are expecting too much out of our marriage, and we ought to just lower our expectations. So often the myth of miserable married life is played up on television and in movies. But this is the wrong way to think about our marriages. You must never, ever lower the expectations you have for your relationship.

God did not give us the gift of matrimony so that we would be unhappy. God never once planned for dating to be wonderful and marriage to be miserable. God is exactly the same today, yesterday, and forever. He never intended for our marriages to take on a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde life of their own. What we present to our spouses in the beginning is what we must continue living throughout our marriage.

We believe that Christian marriage counseling should revolve around the fact that God loves us and wants us to love each other through happy marriages. This is why we should remember to honor our vows to love, honor, and cherish our partners today as we loved, honored, and cherished them before we got married. Only through God’s strength and love can we enjoy a relationship that is exciting and fulfilling for years after it first began.

Our FREE DVD will help you understand the reasons behind the problems in your relationship, and help you fix them through God’s teachings. Over 10,000 other couples have rescued their marriages with ourChristian Marriage Help DVD, and now so can you! This offer won’t last forever, so please be sure to get your free copy before it is too late!

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